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*There aren’t actually any posts about shoes here. But it rhymed and the rhythm of three works well. Hence the shoes.
Have a look at the image. What do you think the No. 1 excuse is that people use for never chasing their dreams?
I’ve spoken in the past to so many people who have shown admiration (bless ’em!) for the way I’ve always created an income stream (or varying levels!) doing what I enjoy. For me the concept or ‘work’ to make other people more money doesn’t sit well with me. If we’re going to spend the majority of our lives in ‘work’ then I want to enjoy it!
The excuses and reasons people have expressed to me when I’ve asked them what they wish they could do for a living are varied. So, I devised a test which I’ve just offered you above.
Whatever excuse you think the No. 1 reason is will be a reflection of what is actually stopping you from doing what you want to do!
It might not be something you wish you could do everyday as a job. Maybe it’s just an idea, like write that book you’ve always been thinking of. Or, visiting that certain place, or certain someone. Painting that picture. Performing in that play.
So, what did you think the No. 1 reason is? Chances are that it’s the No.1 reason you’re not doing what you’d love to do.
Conquer it and crack on! Have fun in the process, as ultimately it is the process that is the reason to do the journey itself. Not the destination.
Have fun! And no more excuses.
Really? Every day?
It’s not hard once you give it a go.
Now, this isn’t saying ‘live dangerously’, or ‘do illegal stuff’. No, no. Rather, what might you do in your daily routine that you would perhaps never consider, or maybe have thought about but not done? Could be life-changing, such as asking out that colleague who you stare at each day. Or, maybe something like heading-up a meeting. Perhaps starting a conversation with a complete stranger. Think of something that gives you an inner feeling of being fearful.
Thinking? Good. Getting sweaty palms? The fight or flight response telling you to run, baby, run? Ignore it and just go and do it.
But why bother?
Ah, looking for an excuse to get out of this eh? I understand. But if you do try it, even for a week, you’ll soon find yourself being more confident in situations and seizing opportunities.
When I first began performing as a professional magician, I would pass hotels in and around London and then stop, take a look at the massive, intimidating revolving door often complete with door-man, and feel an overwhelming urge to just move along. But soon found that instead I would simply walk up and enter, approach the main reception and ask to speak to someone in events management. Before long I was having spontaneous coffee with senior management and pitching for magic gigs.
And waiting to be found out.
I eventually handled the entertainment for several hotels.
Be ballsy. You never know what might happen! Oh, and be ready for rejection. But that’s another topic for another time.
Go forth and be scared. It’ll become a good habit.
Calling all bibliophiles! Any advice to stop a constant sniffer?
Any book, new or old, I can’t break the habit of sniffing the pages. Do you suffer with this as well? Any advice?
Whether it’s the smell of oak, coffee, muskiness, or a more unidentifiable modern whiff, my nostrils are trained to somehow absorb the book more fully than simply reading it. And I know I’m not alone…
So come on, show of hands! Who’s with me? And how can we stop this epidemic?
Or do we have to?
And the looks I get! I’m now doing my book sniffing in cubicles like some kind of drug addict. And I’ve started sniffing my Kindle!
Got to go… about to start reading an old dusty book and need to make sure nobody’s looking while I give the inside pages a quick whiff!
But that’s for another time.
However, it does lead me nicely on to my partner-in-crime Jen Allen. Jen’s new print range is now available and can be viewed here; https://goo.gl/4E5BFV From Jen’s publishers DeMontfort Fine Art ‘Jen Allen has surpassed herself with her new releases – a pair of outstanding limited editions featuring iconic superhero Batman and his villainous nemesis, the Joker. Her ‘Silent Guardian’ offers a serious exploration of the dark romance of Bruce Wayne’s heroic alter-ego, while the Joker, who is often portrayed wearing a wicked smile, is shown as a genuinely menacing personality. Intensity of character and atmosphere seeps out of every brushstroke, demonstrating precisely why Jen has achieved her enormous worldwide success.’
When inspiration strikes, what is the best way to proceed?
Write it down! The secret of the notebook. Not tapping it into a phone. No, no, no.
Why write it down? The actual process of writing your idea cements it into your thinking. But that’s only Step 1 in bringing ideas to life.
Shortly, we’ll look at Step 2. But for now, always, always carry a notebook and pen. Be like Columbo! (Except don’t always ask to borrow a pencil.) Keep a notebook by the bed, in the WC and in the car. And of course in your coat pocket, jacket pocket and jeans pocket.
Ideally, make it the same notebook. Saves money and time when it comes to Step 2:)
If you want to get things done and bring ideas to life; get a notebook (and pen).
I’m a List Addict. There. It’s out. Phew.
Usually we all sit round in a circle and ‘come out’. Not pens or pads allowed.
The irony is us LA’s at LA have an ordered schedule of business (e.g. a list) so we can’t escape them completely.
And neither should we.
Make lists. A priority. In. Your. Life.
Fortune’s Formula; Make Lists = Get Things Done.
Join us. Become a List Addict. You’ll be glad you did.
One of the things that brings a smile to my face over the Brexit debate (one of the few things given the dilemma of the topic!) is the constant line ‘we need certainty’. The ONLY certainty in life is uncertainty. Everything is uncertain. We often fall for the illusion of certainty. But it is just that. An illusion.
So, given things are uncertain, here’s a way to provide uncertainty in your everyday life. Inspired from The Big Bang Theory’s ‘Anything Can Happen Thursday’s’, my girlfriend Jen and I have created this as a permanent feature in our weekly schedule. Each Thursday morning we pick a slip from the ACHT jar (see photo) and whatever it says, we do.
So what’s on those slips? Anything! From going for a bike ride, to a full-on day activity; visiting an attraction, exploring new places and more. We add the ideas as they come to us (without telling each other) and drop them in the jar.
First one picked out last Thursday was to visit a palmist and have our fortune’s told! Ironic given my surname.
So, what can you do to embrace uncertainty and bring spontaneity into your life?
I took a moment the other day to realise just how varied my ‘job’ is. And yes, I say ‘job’ as it’s not really a chore. More ‘paid-play’. But I digress… In one day, I took a call re doing a series of magic workshops as part of my Magic Moments initiative for potentially 60 special need schools, then had a meeting re my Wundre furniture, spoke to a client re Jen Allen doing another live royal portrait, went cycling around a local nature reserve, finished the first draft of a short horror story which is one of many I’m thinking of compiling into a collection, began sketching a new piece of furniture for Wundre which is pretty awesome (even if I do say so myself… a-hem!), devised a new logo for a wellbeing centre in London’s famous Primrose Hill who I’m working with on their marketing, proof read a document for a new book by an established philosopher/author, held talks about a new conference I’m planning for Spring 2018, furthered discussions on a tour in 2018 and helped a magician work through a new magic trick. Phew! One of the benefits of risking new ventures and hoping that at the end of the day you’ve got money in the bank to continue to play is precisely that I never know what might present itself tomorrow. I never know who will call or what opportunities might come around. Not always good stuff, but on the rollercoaster of life it certainly keeps things interesting. Variety is indeed the spice of life. What do you do to shake up your reality on a daily basis?
Human dynamo? Not my words, but those of the editor of MagicSeen Magazine; ‘Jay is a multi-talented man who is equally at home designing high end ‘magic themed’ furniture as he is providing excellent drawings for magic books and trick instructions. We find out more about this human dynamo in the May issue.’
Thanks to them for this interview about my art skills used within the magic community for books, adverts and more.
Read the full article here; Jay Fortune Article Iss. 74